my referral link is a link to the offer page i created(for me = sidekick)
is it possible to change my link from
incase they dont want a sidekick III
This should be asked in a support ticket, I suggest you remove your ref links from your post.
No, the referral link wouldnt work.
If you dont want the sidekick then get some refs and just do a custom order to get whatever you want.