need player advice

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michae229

27-11-2008 01:16:26

aight bros since you helped FOAFY i need some advice....

im trying to get at this Persian chick but there is some issues.....

1.she is very busy job and internship

2.she dont really reply to text and return calls.

3.had 2 opportunities to hook up with her i fucked it up both times.

4.flaky as hell.

5. we meet up at the same time every day and she always seems interested and at the football games but i dunno.

felt like im trying to hard so im pulling back on this chick what are some other perspectives to approach this?

TravMan162

27-11-2008 01:39:11

Ha trust me, I'm no FOAFY. First off, the busy job and internship don't mean anything if you meet up at the same time every day. If she's making the time to meet with you (I have no idea what you're doing) then you should have plenty of opportunities.

Back off on the texts and calls. If she's not responding, then if you keep sending them, you'll start to come off as desperate and kind of annoying. Her not responding should tell you something, not necessarily that you have no shot, but just to stop wasting your time in this area.

Flaky is good. Quirky girls are easy to work with because you have a really good chance of doing some really stupid arbitrary thing that she will find endearing and cute. Trust me.

I don't know what you did to fuck up the hook ups, but if you have had two opportunities, they didn't go well, AND she's still around, that means you'll have an opportunity for a third, but you'd best not fuck that one up.

If you can look at this and say you're trying too hard, then she's thinking you're really trying too hard and that's why she doesn't respond to the texts and things. However, the fact that she hasn't told you piss off yet means that you still have a shot.

Do the same thing I'm about to do in my dilemma. Play it cool, stop trying and let her come to you. I've only known the girl in my story for a month now, whereas you seem to have some sort of personal relationship with yours, so you'll be in good shape if you play your cards right.

I noticed in my situation that when I wasn't doing anything at all to come on to her, she was coming to me, but as soon as I started to reciprocate a bit, I began to subtly drive her away a bit. So I'm going to lean back and let her take over. You have a way better shot of it working in your favor than I do, because I'm starting from scratch, but you seem to be in a pretty straightforward situation.

Just stop calling and texting her and see what happens. It'll drive her nuts, I promise.

Oh and fuck you in advance to anyone who shits on us for talking about this P You've all been here at one point, so get off our backs haha. Not only that, but it gives Josh something to read.

x323smostwantedx

27-11-2008 01:43:54

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TravMan162

27-11-2008 01:52:50

^ lol

TryinToGetPaid

27-11-2008 07:40:02

1.she is very busy job and internship

2.she dont really reply to text and return calls.

Uhm, if a chick is into you, she will make time for you. Give it up, you are done.

michae229

27-11-2008 08:45:23

Thanks TravMan162 you the player in the forums she will reply like 2% of the time and call when i don't show up when she gets out of class, and text me when she sees me.

But when i do encounter her she still seems interested in my book and we been talking for a few weeks im in the same situation as TravMan162.

im also talking to this half Mexican and Spanish chick not as hot but to me attractive initiates texts and recently started calling, I know she has a boyfriend told my friend and not me, definitely interested in my book. Because she wont say shit when she around her friends or acts weird and wont talk, but I know she feeling me, so with her i guess im the other man lol....

TFOAF

27-11-2008 08:49:26

Maybe she wants a free book. P

michae229

27-11-2008 09:09:53

[quote633d359b76="TFOAF"]Maybe she wants a free book. P[/quote633d359b76]

umm....

I dont write books?

edit lol i get it...

boy there hook up with a chick and got jokes lol

JennyWren

27-11-2008 09:42:57

[quote5a64e0cebb="michae229"]definitely interested in my book.[/quote5a64e0cebb]

It's your lack of a comma that threw him off.

Since when is flaky good? Flaky isn't the same as quirky, flaky is stupid and annoying.

What is it about this girl that you like? She sounds a bit unapproachable.

michae229

27-11-2008 09:47:50

[quotee0a5575803="JennyWren"][quotee0a5575803="michae229"]definitely interested in my book.[/quotee0a5575803]

It's your lack of a comma that threw him off.

Since when is flaky good? Flaky isn't the same as quirky, flaky is stupid and annoying.

What is it about this girl that you like? She sounds a bit unapproachable.[/quotee0a5575803]

she got a good personality and works hard and umm she's hot, im also tired of black chicks want to go outside the box.

manOFice

27-11-2008 11:32:00

Ignore her for a bit and see if she contacts you??

TravMan162

27-11-2008 17:52:31

dude, I gotta be honest, I can barely understand anything you're saying with the lack of punctuation haha. I'm trying here, but it's a struggle.

michae229

27-11-2008 17:59:16

[quote03ece7e65d="TravMan162"]dude, I gotta be honest, I can barely understand anything you're saying with the lack of punctuation haha. I'm trying here, but it's a struggle.[/quote03ece7e65d]

my bad ill try

CollidgeGraduit

27-11-2008 18:50:44

[quotefbaf93e4b8="michae229"][quotefbaf93e4b8="TravMan162"]dude, I gotta be honest, I can barely understand anything you're saying with the lack of punctuation haha. I'm trying here, but it's a struggle.[/quotefbaf93e4b8]

my bad ill try[/quotefbaf93e4b8]

Yes, it was a bad, ill try.

michae229

27-11-2008 19:05:13

[quotea0b1593588="CollidgeGraduit"][quotea0b1593588="michae229"][quotea0b1593588="TravMan162"]dude, I gotta be honest, I can barely understand anything you're saying with the lack of punctuation haha. I'm trying here, but it's a struggle.[/quotea0b1593588]

my bad ill try[/quotea0b1593588]

Yes, it was a bad, ill try.[/quotea0b1593588]

what....

tylerc

27-11-2008 19:13:13

[quotee6f72dee7c="michae229"][quotee6f72dee7c="CollidgeGraduit"][quotee6f72dee7c="michae229"][quotee6f72dee7c="TravMan162"]dude, I gotta be honest, I can barely understand anything you're saying with the lack of punctuation haha. I'm trying here, but it's a struggle.[/quotee6f72dee7c]

my bad ill try[/quotee6f72dee7c]

Yes, it was a bad, ill try.[/quotee6f72dee7c]

what....[/quotee6f72dee7c]

You didn't punctuate "I'll" correctly, making it "ill".