alright so there this girl....
bayarea05
07-09-2007 20:58:47
alright, iam in college, first year, and i enjoying it. Met some new ppl already, and its local so am not home sick. so this girl in my math class is giving me signals. like when i talked to her on the first day, she was blushing, smileing, i was like OO YEA!!! P LOL
so since then we havent talked, LOL, but she looks at me during class. we only have classes together on monday and wednesday. i want to talk to her, but i guess i cant get a good chance to talk to her.
i have a good feeling she wants me to talk to her, but am weak to tell the truth, i aint the ladies man if u want to say. so wat u guys suggest? should i just whip it out and amaze her? JK! but seriously, i need some tips so i can do a move on monday
thanks
J4320
07-09-2007 21:03:08
Just go for it and DON'T think about it or precalculate anything. It gets blotchy if you do that. If you try to plan stuff out you just make it an even bigger deal you'll get more and more stressed out about it and worked up. Just be natural and don't think about it.
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Also, do it and don't regret it if something bad happens. It's better to try and fail than not try at all. You only have one life so live it. <--- very good advice
Sstaceyrae21
07-09-2007 21:05:54
Use the safe excuse method and ask her if she wants to study together. Puts you in a safe zone, just incase you were readung her signals wrong, and if you were reading them right, puts you in a good position to maybe go out after studying ?!?
Good luck!
Ah - my best college memory...
naked- beer superslide in the dorm hall! Good times... bad dorm fines, cleanup was expensive!
theysayjump
07-09-2007 21:43:26
FOAFY, is that you?
Sweeney2066
07-09-2007 21:56:43
bayarea05
07-09-2007 22:25:20
[quoteca7f67c80d="theysayjump"]FOAFY, is that you?[/quoteca7f67c80d]
WHO??
bayarea05
07-09-2007 22:26:14
kidd2108
07-09-2007 22:38:03
[quote91d6f7a510="bayarea05"][quote91d6f7a510="theysayjump"]FOAFY, is that you?[/quote91d6f7a510]
WHO??[/quote91d6f7a510]
You might be a newbie if you dont know who foafy is.
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syriandoode
07-09-2007 22:47:36
wow bayarea05 reminds of pokernerd
i remember him doing the exact same thing
tjwor
07-09-2007 23:01:38
[quote8aa4aa391b="syriandoode"]wow bayarea05 reminds of pokernerd
i remember him doing the exact same thing[/quote8aa4aa391b]
oh fuck, i forgot all about the PNAA girl problems...
ilanbg
07-09-2007 23:09:15
But with worse grammar.
Anyway, like I was paraphrased above saying, just do your thing. My philosophy in these situations is that I would rather regret action than regret inaction. You shoot to score, but you shoot either way.
J4320
08-09-2007 00:25:16
bayarea05
08-09-2007 00:49:50
whos all these ppl u guys are talkin about? you guys spend too much on the internet?
i hear u guys. i shouldnt even be thinkin about this, be myself and be calm. fo sho on 24's
J4320
08-09-2007 00:57:58
What? We're trying to help you and you're insulting us? We could have made fun of you for asking for girl help on an internet freebie forum but we didn't. Tucker Max is simply the name of the guy who started a web site with tons of great advice about this kind of stuff -- the kind of advice [i94927c3f68]you[/i94927c3f68] are asking for.
So you could either be nice and listen to our advice like you asked for or you can take your fo shoin 24's and shove them up your ass.
bayarea05
08-09-2007 01:03:29
[quote13ca8e5c27="J4320"]What? We're trying to help you and you're insulting us? We could have made fun of you for asking for girl help on an internet freebie forum but we didn't. Tucker Max is simply the name of the guy who started a web site with tons of great advice about this kind of stuff -- the kind of advice [i13ca8e5c27]you[/i13ca8e5c27] are asking for.
So you could either be nice and listen to our advice like you asked for or you can take your fo shoin 24's and shove them up your ass.[/quote13ca8e5c27]
how i did i insult ya, if i did then i apolgize ?
i was being referred to other ppl that i dont know. i guess their known around here.
and thanks for the tips guys and girls
bayarea05
08-09-2007 01:08:42
mind me ppl, its late night i dont know why am still on the internet, i cant sleep. GO RAIDERS!!
J4320
08-09-2007 01:21:05
[quotea5261a709d="bayarea05"][quotea5261a709d="J4320"]What? We're trying to help you and you're insulting us? We could have made fun of you for asking for girl help on an internet freebie forum but we didn't. Tucker Max is simply the name of the guy who started a web site with tons of great advice about this kind of stuff -- the kind of advice [ia5261a709d]you[/ia5261a709d] are asking for.
So you could either be nice and listen to our advice like you asked for or you can take your fo shoin 24's and shove them up your ass.[/quotea5261a709d]
how i did i insult ya, if i did then i apolgize ?
i was being referred to other ppl that i dont know. i guess their known around here.
and thanks for the tips guys and girls[/quotea5261a709d]
I guess I got a little jumpy when you said we spend too much time on the internet when we're just trying to help you. Sorry about that. I've actually been on the internet a lot frequently because I've been pretty depressed lately. When I get depressed I end up posting on forums at 100 AM in the morning lol. lol
Anyway, I think you were just playfully joking and I jumped on it wrong. Sorry about that. oops
Bottom line is, the less you worry about it the more natural it comes. Good luck man. ;)
(btw maybe we should take a sleeping pill and call it a night P )
TFOAF
08-09-2007 07:37:36
Hey, my name's FOAFY. ;) Or...my username is at the least.
Anyways, yeah I have girl troubles too. D
Basically....
My dorms are co-ed, so my across-from-us neighbors are girls. I like one of them. But she has a boyfriend. But I do everything with her, and hang out with her until like 3 AM, or hang out in my dorm or whatever. And like we'll walk to class together or whatever. I had breakfast with her and her roomy yesterday morning. But again she has a boyfriend. We also texted like 150 times two days ago non-stop all day. And like, idk, she said I was cool and that I'm funny and stuff like that. lisighli (
And hey, I'm not nervous or paranoid like I used to be. I knocked on their door the other day, and her roomy opened it, and I was like HEY I'M COMING IN. lmao. But like, now I don't feel shy or anything hanging out with girls like I used to be...but it's just gah, I'm just ranting. I really like her, lmao. (
Oh, and Michelle (the girl I like), and me, have so much in common too, lmao. OMG! And she remembers playing DOS games, she asked me about them, and we were playing them, and Windows 3.1. omg. I Love college. lmao.
So bayarea05, we somewhat have something in common. ;)
manOFice
08-09-2007 07:46:54
FOAFY say what?
tracemhunter
08-09-2007 08:24:12
Why don't you just talk to her? It really isn't that hard if you are confident in yourself. If she is not into you, well fuck her then. Move along to the next one.
What happens if you talk to her? The possibility of penis-vagina interaction. If you don't ask her, you are right back in the same position you are in now with your dick in your hand. At least you will get some peace of mind if you ask her.
Oh, and don't talk shit about Tucker Max. His forum has helped me out quite a bit in certain aspects (closing the deal).
Admin
08-09-2007 08:27:50
why do these always have to be such a trainwreck of people regurgitating stuff they've read and seen on TV
puppeteer
08-09-2007 10:10:53
Buy something that you think it makes you look good..
buy a cologne, jeans, clothes, that will boost up your confidence, get a haircut... it does help trust me!
TFOAF
08-09-2007 11:15:43
I brought the girl I like ice cream, lmao. She asked me to go to the store, but I don't have a car, so I got her some from the food place and brought her it to her room.
manOFice
08-09-2007 11:26:06
[quotef207b7c5e5="TFOAF"]I brought the girl I like ice cream, lmao. She asked me to go to the store, but I don't have a car, so I got her some from the food place and brought her it to her room.[/quotef207b7c5e5]
shes's using you..... unless you feel she'll cheat on her b/f drop her and if she does cheat on her b/f you know what type of girl she is...
TFOAF
08-09-2007 11:26:38
No she wasn't using me, lol. She told me not to, but I did it anyways.
She was no, don't, please. And I like yes, I am. And she's like NO! But I gave it to her anyways.
bayarea05
08-09-2007 11:45:53
[quote968519e95f="TFOAF"]I brought the girl I like ice cream, lmao. She asked me to go to the store, but I don't have a car, so I got her some from the food place and brought her it to her room.[/quote968519e95f]
dont let her use you. get out b4 it gets worse. and u need to get ur L"S!!!!
TryinToGetPaid
08-09-2007 11:53:01
I think we need a Relationship board for all you wieners.
Just say, "Are you busy this weekend?" Easy. Simple. Winner. If she blows you off, she isn't worth the time of day anyway....
TFOAF
08-09-2007 11:54:20
My L's? lol. She just texted me a few minutes ago, and then we continuously texted for the past half hour, lmao. (
manOFice
08-09-2007 11:55:47
[quotef810e0733d="TFOAF"]My L's? lol. She just texted me a few minutes ago, and then we continuously texted for the past half hour, lmao. ([/quotef810e0733d]
stop texting her, or text here "hey wanna go out some time?" and if she says yes then ok if she says she has a b/f .. .dropurl==http://=http:///url her. Maybe the whole b/f was a cover up ... are you positive she has one?
TFOAF
08-09-2007 12:02:17
Yeah, she was with him yesterday. Their "1-year" is like in a month or something.
manOFice
08-09-2007 12:05:02
[quotebb41085e42="TFOAF"]Yeah, she was with him yesterday. Their "1-year" is like in a month or something.[/quotebb41085e42]
so fucking stop texting her, stop getting her ice cream, the boyfriend will kick your ass, or will attempt if you are butting in.
Theres tons of nice girls at college, find some without b/f's
bayarea05
08-09-2007 12:05:20
license is what i meant by L's.
TFOAF
08-09-2007 19:33:35
[quote6667a5e72e="manOFice"][quote6667a5e72e="TFOAF"]Yeah, she was with him yesterday. Their "1-year" is like in a month or something.[/quote6667a5e72e]
so fucking stop texting her, stop getting her ice cream, the boyfriend will kick your ass, or will attempt if you are butting in.
Theres tons of nice girls at college, find some without b/f's[/quote6667a5e72e]
lolol. Me older than him. D lmao. I can't help it. (
[quote6667a5e72e="bayarea05"]license is what i meant by L's.[/quote6667a5e72e]
I have my license...just not a car, lol. Can't afford one at the moment. Maybe next year.
kidd2108
08-09-2007 19:52:50
[quote9566b8a5fa="TFOAF"][quote9566b8a5fa="manOFice"][quote9566b8a5fa="TFOAF"]Yeah, she was with him yesterday. Their "1-year" is like in a month or something.[/quote9566b8a5fa]
so fucking stop texting her, stop getting her ice cream, the boyfriend will kick your ass, or will attempt if you are butting in.
Theres tons of nice girls at college, find some without b/f's[/quote9566b8a5fa]
lolol. Me older than him. D lmao. I can't help it. (
[/quote9566b8a5fa]
he'd still kick your ass.
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aviendha47
08-09-2007 20:26:50
[quote1cfc575fc9="manOFice"][quote1cfc575fc9="TFOAF"]Yeah, she was with him yesterday. Their "1-year" is like in a month or something.[/quote1cfc575fc9]
so fucking stop texting her, stop getting her ice cream, the boyfriend will kick your ass, or will attempt if you are butting in.
Theres tons of nice girls at college, find some without b/f's[/quote1cfc575fc9]
QFT
...and to the OP, just talk to her, about class, about anything.
theysayjump
08-09-2007 21:07:45
FOAF, you're lawling too much.
Are you trying to make us think that you think this is all funny when in actual fact it's tearing you apart?
Jams44
08-09-2007 21:33:32
[b4923bdce7c]Who am I?[/b4923bdce7c]
First I stalked her. Then I bought her ice cream, then I went to the store for her, then I cooked for her, and then I sniffed her panties, then I went to get a cingular phone because I can't browse the web when I am in her bushes watching her comb her hair.
[b4923bdce7c]Answer[/b4923bdce7c] TFOAF
Honestly TFOAF you kind of sound like a creep. You are in college, dont be obsessive. There are plenty of girls to go around.
bayarea05
08-09-2007 21:47:06
[quoteba53a4ce93="Jams44"][bba53a4ce93]Who am I?[/bba53a4ce93]
First I stalked her. Then I bought her ice cream, then I went to the store for her, then I cooked for her, and then I sniffed her panties, then I went to get a cingular phone because I can't browse the web when I am in her bushes watching her comb her hair.
[bba53a4ce93]Answer[/bba53a4ce93] TFOAF
Honestly TFOAF you kind of sound like a creep. You are in college, dont be obsessive. There are plenty of girls to go around.[/quoteba53a4ce93]
ROFL!!!
OMFG!! ROFL!! SO REALLY LOL'd ON THAT!! ROFL!!!
tracemhunter
09-09-2007 02:06:41
she is wasting your texts and you have moved to the friend zone. drop her unless she has hot friends.
TFOAF
09-09-2007 07:14:06
[quote0fcaf93a34="tracemhunter"]she is wasting your texts and you have moved to the friend zone. drop her unless she has hot friends.[/quote0fcaf93a34]
i have unlimited texts. i dont stalk her.
Killer722
09-09-2007 07:55:07
Trace knows what's up, you've moved into the friend zone. All you can do is wait for her to make the move since she has a bf. So stop talking to her until she asks what's up then be like "BAM THIS WUZUP!" and tell her wuzzup.
And if she laughs at you. Punch her in the fucking head.
theysayjump
09-09-2007 08:45:32
[quote7a25af8bf2="Killer722"]Trace knows what's up, you've moved into the friend zone. All you can do is wait for her to make the move since she has a bf. So stop talking to her until she asks what's up then be like "BAM THIS WUZUP!" and tell her wuzzup.
And if she laughs at you. Punch her in the fucking head.[/quote7a25af8bf2]
Or don't even waste your time or hurting your hand, just go straight to jail.
tylerc
09-09-2007 09:07:38
[quotef284dd2eb8="TFOAF"][quotef284dd2eb8="tracemhunter"]she is wasting your texts and you have moved to the friend zone. drop her unless she has hot friends.[/quotef284dd2eb8]
i have unlimited texts. i dont stalk her.[/quotef284dd2eb8]
God damnit FOAFY, what have I told you about this shit? Knock it off and find a single girl, there's tons of em, at least 37, at least.
TFOAF
09-09-2007 09:17:23
[quoteff71f6c476="Killer722"]Trace knows what's up, you've moved into the friend zone. All you can do is wait for her to make the move since she has a bf. So stop talking to her until she asks what's up then be like "BAM THIS WUZUP!" and tell her wuzzup.
And if she laughs at you. Punch her in the fucking head.[/quoteff71f6c476]
Why should I stop speaking to her?
[quoteff71f6c476="theysayjump"][quoteff71f6c476="Killer722"]Trace knows what's up, you've moved into the friend zone. All you can do is wait for her to make the move since she has a bf. So stop talking to her until she asks what's up then be like "BAM THIS WUZUP!" and tell her wuzzup.
And if she laughs at you. Punch her in the fucking head.[/quoteff71f6c476]
Or don't even waste your time or hurting your hand, just go straight to jail.[/quoteff71f6c476]
lmao!
manOFice
09-09-2007 10:12:07
[quote4d249bae6f="TFOAF"][quote4d249bae6f="Killer722"]Trace knows what's up, you've moved into the friend zone. All you can do is wait for her to make the move since she has a bf. So stop talking to her until she asks what's up then be like "BAM THIS WUZUP!" and tell her wuzzup.
And if she laughs at you. Punch her in the fucking head.[/quote4d249bae6f]
Why should I stop speaking to her?
[quote4d249bae6f="theysayjump"][quote4d249bae6f="Killer722"]Trace knows what's up, you've moved into the friend zone. All you can do is wait for her to make the move since she has a bf. So stop talking to her until she asks what's up then be like "BAM THIS WUZUP!" and tell her wuzzup.
And if she laughs at you. Punch her in the fucking head.[/quote4d249bae6f]
Or don't even waste your time or hurting your hand, just go straight to jail.[/quote4d249bae6f]
lmao![/quote4d249bae6f]
because we said so! 8)
ilanbg
09-09-2007 10:40:13
He's hopeless. This thread is pointless.
ilikesmemymoney
09-09-2007 13:20:30
yeah dude just go for it, be cocky in a funny way and she'll want ur cock more than ever
tylerc
09-09-2007 13:24:52
[quotec2ec365ca6="ilikesmemymoney"]yeah dude just go for it, be cocky in a funny way and she'll want ur cock more than ever[/quotec2ec365ca6]
No.
manOFice
09-09-2007 13:50:00
[quoted17a06be85="tylerc"][quoted17a06be85="ilikesmemymoney"]yeah dude just go for it, be cocky in a funny way and she'll want ur cock more than ever[/quoted17a06be85]
No.[/quoted17a06be85]
Agreed
Killer722
09-09-2007 13:54:36
[quote5792496381="theysayjump"][quote5792496381="Killer722"]Trace knows what's up, you've moved into the friend zone. All you can do is wait for her to make the move since she has a bf. So stop talking to her until she asks what's up then be like "BAM THIS WUZUP!" and tell her wuzzup.
And if she laughs at you. Punch her in the fucking head.[/quote5792496381]
Or don't even waste your time or hurting your hand, just go straight to jail.[/quote5792496381]
You punch her in the head EMOTIONALLY. Jeeze, someone hasn't seen 40 year old virgin.
TFOAF
09-09-2007 15:11:27
lol.
So wait. What exactly should I do, even though she has a boyfriend?
bayarea05
09-09-2007 15:29:15
[quoteb592035a83="TFOAF"]lol.
So wait. What exactly should I do, even though she has a boyfriend?[/quoteb592035a83]
just leave her alone. she has someone else!! your just wasting ur time and resources on her
TFOAF
09-09-2007 15:32:07
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manOFice
09-09-2007 15:38:33
[quote3b4f2a19ed="bayarea05"][quote3b4f2a19ed="TFOAF"]lol.
So wait. What exactly should I do, even though she has a boyfriend?[/quote3b4f2a19ed]
just leave her alone. she has someone else!! your just wasting ur time and resources on her[/quote3b4f2a19ed]
yep
Killer722
09-09-2007 15:43:03
That's what I've been TRYING to tell you. Open your ears. If she likes you, she'll come to you. What can you do while she has a bf?
Sweeney2066
09-09-2007 17:19:50
Bay seriously read the Tucker Max advice..
But you say she was giving you signals the first day..
and gives you looks in class..
So you should be set.. assuming you have game.
And what kind of class is it?
JKirk
09-09-2007 17:31:29
[quote021310a103="Sweeney2066"]
And what kind of class is it?[/quote021310a103]
Knitting.
tylerc
09-09-2007 17:31:43
TFOAF doesn't have game.
TFOAF
09-09-2007 17:51:48
Gah. Iiiiiiiiiiiiiiit's nooooottttttttttttt FAAAAIRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!! cry
zdub08
09-09-2007 17:53:13
seriously shut the fuck up you say the same thing over and over. I know thats kind of mean but noone cares about your girl problems.
J4320
09-09-2007 18:01:02
Noone may care but morning and night are tired of FOAFY's complaints.
zdub08
09-09-2007 19:07:25
no one. happy?
Powerbook
09-09-2007 19:23:38
[quotef71cffdcaa="zdub08"]seriously shut the fuck up you say the same thing over and over. I know thats kind of mean but noone cares about your girl problems.[/quotef71cffdcaa]
chill out... if you are tired of him saying that, then why post in the thread to begin with.
zdub08
09-09-2007 20:05:16
...to tell him to stop saying that over and over
Killer722
09-09-2007 21:55:26
So how many sissy fights is this thread going to start? How many has it been so far? 4? 5? Plus I'm sure someone will complain about this post lol.
Foaf srsly, you need to hear this. Quit being a little bitch.
Sweeney2066
09-09-2007 21:57:37
[quoteb48c536374="Killer722"]So how many sissy fights is this thread going to start? How many has it been so far? 4? 5? Plus I'm sure someone will complain about this post lol.
Foaf srsly, you need to hear this. Quit being a little bitch.[/quoteb48c536374]
Your avatars too hardcore to complain too.
But real talk sissy fights like crazy
J4320
09-09-2007 23:38:29
[quote3e70f598b3="TFOAF"]Gah. Iiiiiiiiiiiiiiit's nooooottttttttttttt FAAAAIRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!! cry[/quote3e70f598b3]
If you're really THAT bummed about it then just go for it. You never know what might happen.
"It was patience and logic that killed true love." This guy told me so --
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lol
But seriously, I think that quote is really good.
bayarea05
10-09-2007 01:30:07
[quote286fd40de1="Sweeney2066"]Bay seriously read the Tucker Max advice..
But you say she was giving you signals the first day..
and gives you looks in class..
So you should be set.. assuming you have game.
And what kind of class is it?[/quote286fd40de1]
math lol
my game sucks to be honest. but i would know what i would be talking to her.
bayarea05
10-09-2007 01:32:54
didnt know the thread would become this BIG.
well okay guys, its 130am and i cant sleep. )
today is the day. ) I will let you guys know what happen.
FOFAY...LOL, wateva ur name is. dude, just tell her that you like her. You live once, you;ll regret it. Just do it!!!
TFOAF
10-09-2007 04:32:28
[quote53935cff37="bayarea05"]didnt know the thread would become this BIG.
well okay guys, its 130am and i cant sleep. )
today is the day. ) I will let you guys know what happen.
FOFAY...LOL, wateva ur name is. dude, just tell her that you like her. You live once, you;ll regret it. Just do it!!![/quote53935cff37]
But she has a boyfriend. Why should I tell her that I like her? I could potentially cause the loss of our friendship. cry
Killer722
10-09-2007 05:14:20
Nice vagina you got there FOAF, what happened to your penis?
JayKanish
10-09-2007 07:33:00
[quoteeeca09e967="TFOAF"][quoteeeca09e967="bayarea05"]didnt know the thread would become this BIG.
well okay guys, its 130am and i cant sleep. )
today is the day. ) I will let you guys know what happen.
FOFAY...LOL, wateva ur name is. dude, just tell her that you like her. You live once, you;ll regret it. Just do it!!![/quoteeeca09e967]
But she has a boyfriend. Why should I tell her that I like her? I could potentially cause the loss of our friendship. cry[/quoteeeca09e967]
Sorry, just got here. Anywayz.... You're in the "friend" zone. You are completely fucked. I'm sorry to bust your balls but you are now officially "safe". That means that unless she and her boyfriend a.) break up, or b.) have a huge fight that she wants to piss him off about; you don't have much of a chance. You are currently "one of the girls" (not insulting you but that is your status in her eyes right now). Right now you have 2 choices; you can either go on being the "friend" a.k.a. the "dick under glass" or you can tell her you like her. If you choose the latter then either she will cheat on her BF with you and you'll be the sidepiece or she won't return the feelings and you will have effectively destroyed your current relationship.
My advice is to just let well enough alone. Be a friend and go find a new tail to chase, cuz you have little o no chance of catching this one.
Sweeney2066
10-09-2007 09:50:54
[quote66f031cb68="TFOAF"][quote66f031cb68="bayarea05"]didnt know the thread would become this BIG.
well okay guys, its 130am and i cant sleep. )
today is the day. ) I will let you guys know what happen.
FOFAY...LOL, wateva ur name is. dude, just tell her that you like her. You live once, you;ll regret it. Just do it!!![/quote66f031cb68]
But she has a boyfriend. Why should I tell her that I like her? I could potentially cause the loss of our friendship. cry[/quote66f031cb68]
I'm really lost... like foafy CAN'T be serious can he?
And generally expressing your undenying love to girls with boyfriends isn't going to "win" you them.. and even if it did why would you want some whore like that?
Only way your going to get sexual with her is if you fill a need that her boyfriend doesn't provide... and thats not ice cream
TFOAF
10-09-2007 10:19:37
[quoteac5ff7ec55="JayKanish"][quoteac5ff7ec55="TFOAF"][quoteac5ff7ec55="bayarea05"]didnt know the thread would become this BIG.
well okay guys, its 130am and i cant sleep. )
today is the day. ) I will let you guys know what happen.
FOFAY...LOL, wateva ur name is. dude, just tell her that you like her. You live once, you;ll regret it. Just do it!!![/quoteac5ff7ec55]
But she has a boyfriend. Why should I tell her that I like her? I could potentially cause the loss of our friendship. cry[/quoteac5ff7ec55]
Sorry, just got here. Anywayz.... You're in the "friend" zone. You are completely fucked. I'm sorry to bust your balls but you are now officially "safe". That means that unless she and her boyfriend a.) break up, or b.) have a huge fight that she wants to piss him off about; you don't have much of a chance. You are currently "one of the girls" (not insulting you but that is your status in her eyes right now). Right now you have 2 choices; you can either go on being the "friend" a.k.a. the "dick under glass" or you can tell her you like her. If you choose the latter then either she will cheat on her BF with you and you'll be the sidepiece or she won't return the feelings and you will have effectively destroyed your current relationship.
My advice is to just let well enough alone. Be a friend and go find a new tail to chase, cuz you have little o no chance of catching this one.[/quoteac5ff7ec55]
But it's extremely difficult and nearly impossible to let go.
JayKanish
10-09-2007 10:31:07
[quote391e4eb38d="TFOAF"][quote391e4eb38d="bayarea05"] shock [/quote391e4eb38d]
But it's extremely difficult and nearly impossible to let go.[/quote391e4eb38d]
It is, and if you really really really like her then you will most likely always really really really like her. You're in a catch 22. If tell her you like her she is most likely (99/100) not going to break up with her boyfriend for you. And if you don't tell her you have to wait it out and pretend like you don't "like" her and fill the spot of the best "boy friend but not boyfriend". You really have to try and convince yourself that it just isn't worth it to go on stressing about.
Powerbook
10-09-2007 11:09:20
why the hell do I get temp banned for saying something like "lol" when people tell each other to shut the fuck up? boggles the mind. you guys are not the only ones with girl problems. instead of posting here, i actually attempt to do something about it.
TFOAF
10-09-2007 11:14:30
I don't understand why though. I'm always attracted to girls I can't have, and I manage to push myself so far in, that it's impossible to break out of this retarded wrath and makes me feel like shit all of the time. When I see her, I'm all happy and shit, and then when I think about how she has a boyfriend, I just sigh and look down and whatever. And then I get all tired and a "depressed" type of feeling, even though I'm not depressed. It makes me almost wanna cry. And yes, I said CRY. Those are feelings. I don't understand why this shit happens to me, I really don't. (
I've never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, never did anything with a girl except hang out or whatever. (
And it's not like I overhaul myself with this shit, it just happens, and then it just sucks me right in and I can't stop or get out. cry
MyungChunHa
10-09-2007 11:49:04
[quote1a9d19a3cd="TFOAF"]I don't understand why though. I'm always attracted to girls I can't have, and I manage to push myself so far in, that it's impossible to break out of this retarded wrath and makes me feel like shit all of the time. When I see her, I'm all happy and shit, and then when I think about how she has a boyfriend, I just sigh and look down and whatever. And then I get all tired and a "depressed" type of feeling, even though I'm not depressed. It makes me almost wanna cry. And yes, I said CRY. Those are feelings. [b1a9d19a3cd]I don't understand why this shit happens to me[/b1a9d19a3cd], I really don't. ([/quote1a9d19a3cd]
Really, don't be so selfish. Your human and it's natural, happens all the time to most everyone. It's nature to want more and rarely be completely satisfied.
[quote1a9d19a3cd="TFOAF"]I've never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, never did anything with a girl except hang out or whatever. (
And it's not like I overhaul myself with this shit, it just happens, and then it just sucks me right in and I can't stop or get out. cry[/quote1a9d19a3cd]
If it's eating you up this bad, I would just do something that showed you like her, be slick and write a poem or buy her something. You need to get it off your chest or it's going to end up ruining things anyways, it's college man do something crazy, it's not going to kill you. Plus, I figure the only reason your a good friend to her is that you like her like that. Nothing to lose my friend.....unless of course that boyfriend happens to be your best friend ?
ilanbg
10-09-2007 11:53:36
FOAF, you have a lot of emotional maturing to do. As a result, there's nothing this thread or anything else on the internet can do to help you... you just have to go out and do some things that scare you or seem unnatural, in order to gain the wisdom from those experiences. Until you do, you'll continue being the chump you are. There's nothing else to say, there's nothing else to ask.
MyungChunHa
10-09-2007 12:03:30
[quote969a8e6070="ilanbg"]FOAF, you have a lot of emotional maturing to do. As a result, there's nothing this thread or anything else on the internet can do to help you... you just have to go out and do some things that scare you or seem unnatural, in order to gain the wisdom from those experiences. Until you do, you'll continue being the chump you are. There's nothing else to say, there's nothing else to ask.[/quote969a8e6070]
God damn, that's the best advice I've heard so far.
tylerc
10-09-2007 13:02:22
[quoted6aecc7d8b="ilanbg"]FOAF, you have a lot of emotional maturing to do. As a result, there's nothing this thread or anything else on the internet can do to help you... you just have to go out and do some things that scare you or seem unnatural, in order to gain the wisdom from those experiences. Until you do, you'll continue being the chump you are. There's nothing else to say, there's nothing else to ask.[/quoted6aecc7d8b]
FOAF, your problem is confidence. Girls can smell your lack of it from a mile away and that immediately puts you on the level of a friend, as JayKanish said. Get drunk, so you don't fear rejection as much, go to a frat party, and just dance with some girls and hook up. Seriously, if there's any place easier to get any action than at a frat party, I don't know of it. Even Tucker Max says the easiest place to get laid is an American college campus. It's true.
JayKanish
10-09-2007 13:54:10
I was trying to suggest doing it so you don't end up losing her as a friend but I think it might be best FOAF. You're bordering on infatuation and unhealthy obsession. I think you should just be upfront with her now. It may end up in rejection but after the initial "OMG I'm so Sad!!!!!1111" you'll feel a shitload better. Seriously though, go try picking up some girls, get some real life experience, get rejected. The worst that can happen is a slap in the face, and you won't even feel that if you're drunk enough.
michae229
10-09-2007 16:34:53
[quote0f25c18092="JayKanish"]I was trying to suggest doing it so you don't end up losing her as a friend but I think it might be best FOAF. You're bordering on infatuation and unhealthy obsession. I think you should just be upfront with her now. It may end up in rejection but after the initial "OMG I'm so Sad!!!!!1111" you'll feel a shitload better. Seriously though, go try picking up some girls, get some real life experience, get rejected. The worst that can happen is a slap in the face, and you won't even feel that if you're drunk enough.[/quote0f25c18092]
like the sig
J4320
10-09-2007 16:38:38
Yeah that paypal verified sig kicks major ass.
CollidgeGraduit
10-09-2007 16:44:55
What about this Sig?
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J4320
10-09-2007 16:57:50
Umm that one can kick major ass too... I guess...
Sweeney2066
10-09-2007 18:20:04
[quote30067faea7="CollidgeGraduit"]What about this Sig?
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http//blammer.com/blog/wp-content" alt=""/imgcache/2005/440-0505-p226-new.jpg[/img30067faea7][/quote30067faea7]
Too big wink
And you'd have to have a sick quote about not being afraid to shoot people.
michae229
10-09-2007 18:41:16
i meant avatar lol
J4320
10-09-2007 18:52:48
[quote95dc0722de="michae229"]i meant avatar lol[/quote95dc0722de]
I know. ;)
TFOAF
10-09-2007 23:47:42
So wow tonight/morning was weird as hell. O_O
Sweeney2066
11-09-2007 03:57:13
[quoteb7fdebc04e="TFOAF"]So wow tonight/morning was weird as hell. O_O[/quoteb7fdebc04e]
Do tell
And either our boy Bay Area just spent all of yesterday with the girl
or he's too embarrassed to post
TFOAF
11-09-2007 07:23:29
Okay. So, let's see I think it was like 8 PM. My friend and are chilling with Michelle. Then we go to go eat at like 9. Michelle stays in her room. So then we come back at around 10ish. My roomy goes back to his room, I go and watch a movie with Michelle. About an hour later her roomy comes running in, drunk. Then she leaves to get drunk more while the movie's still going on. I don't know, Michelle had like this green blanket thing she put over her. So I told her she looked like a mermaid and she didn't stop laughing. Then she like changed positions and I told her she now looked like a tadpole. Then the movie ended and like 5 people came into my room, my roomy was like WHERE'S THE ALCOHOL? So he got drunk too, and there's like 4 other ridiculously drunk people there. So Michelle had to do some homework, so I just sat with her during that period of time. Then now it's like 12 AM, right? So then Michelle starts playing like some retarded Male strip poker game (non-nude) on some magazine's website. So I'm like OMG HE'S SO HOT, just to be funny and shit. After that we played multiplayer games for a while. I don't know, I made her laugh a lot. Yahoo Pool, and then Yahoo Dots with a 20x20 table. So we started the table at like 130 AM, and we didn't finish until 3. Oh, Michelle and I were the only ones sober. Then we wen to bed. Whatever, this probably means nothing. Oh, and during the movie she took a picture of me and send it to me, lmao, and a video. Oh, and we were cracking up for a really long time over the drunk people in her room, lmao.
manOFice
11-09-2007 07:32:16
[quote999d31ca55="TFOAF"]Okay. So, let's see I think it was like 8 PM. My friend and are chilling with Michelle. Then we go to go eat at like 9. Michelle stays in her room. So then we come back at around 10ish. My roomy goes back to his room, I go and watch a movie with Michelle. About an hour later her roomy comes running in, drunk. Then she leaves to get drunk more while the movie's still going on. I don't know, Michelle had like this green blanket thing she put over her. So I told her she looked like a mermaid and she didn't stop laughing. Then she like changed positions and I told her she now looked like a tadpole. Then the movie ended and like 5 people came into my room, my roomy was like WHERE'S THE ALCOHOL? So he got drunk too, and there's like 4 other ridiculously drunk people there. So Michelle had to do some homework, so I just sat with her during that period of time. Then now it's like 12 AM, right? So then Michelle starts playing like some retarded Male strip poker game (non-nude) on some magazine's website. So I'm like OMG HE'S SO HOT, just to be funny and shit. After that we played multiplayer games for a while. I don't know, I made her laugh a lot. Then we played Yahoole at like 130 AM, and we didn't finish until 3. Then we went to bed. A Pool, and then Yahoo Dots with a 20x20 table. So we started the table oh, Michelle and I were the only ones sober. Whatever, this probably means nothing. Oh, and during the movie she took a picture of me and send it to me, lmao, and a video. Oh, and we were cracking up for a really long time over the drunk people in her room, lmao.[/quote999d31ca55]
wtf dude, don't make gay jokes around her. And you are soooo in the friend zone.
TFOAF
11-09-2007 07:35:36
(103310 AM) Michelle did u have fun last nite?
(103314 AM) Craig did you?
(103321 AM) Michelle did u?
(103324 AM) Michelle i asked first =]
(103326 AM) Craig I asekd you second P
(103345 AM) Craig well? Did you? P
(103406 AM) Michelle l0ll
(103407 AM) Michelle yea =]
(103411 AM) Craig me too )
tylerc
11-09-2007 08:32:59
You stand no chance now. Abandon all hope.
TFOAF
11-09-2007 08:42:19
Oh, and she kept on giving me these looks/smiles or whatever. Whatever. (
tylerc
11-09-2007 08:46:32
Friends smile at each other.
CollidgeGraduit
11-09-2007 09:02:55
[quoted2b78cfee5="manOFice"][quoted2b78cfee5="TFOAF"]Okay. So, let's see I think it was like 8 PM. My friend and are chilling with Michelle. Then we go to go eat at like 9. Michelle stays in her room. So then we come back at around 10ish. My roomy goes back to his room, I go and watch a movie with Michelle. About an hour later her roomy comes running in, drunk. Then she leaves to get drunk more while the movie's still going on. I don't know, Michelle had like this green blanket thing she put over her. So I told her she looked like a mermaid and she didn't stop laughing. Then she like changed positions and I told her she now looked like a tadpole. Then the movie ended and like 5 people came into my room, my roomy was like WHERE'S THE ALCOHOL? So he got drunk too, and there's like 4 other ridiculously drunk people there. So Michelle had to do some homework, so I just sat with her during that period of time. Then now it's like 12 AM, right? So then Michelle starts playing like some retarded Male strip poker game (non-nude) on some magazine's website. So I'm like OMG HE'S SO HOT, just to be funny and shit. After that we played multiplayer games for a while. I don't know, I made her laugh a lot. Then we played Yahoole at like 130 AM, and we didn't finish until 3. Then we went to bed. A Pool, and then Yahoo Dots with a 20x20 table. So we started the table oh, Michelle and I were the only ones sober. Whatever, this probably means nothing. Oh, and during the movie she took a picture of me and send it to me, lmao, and a video. Oh, and we were cracking up for a really long time over the drunk people in her room, lmao.[/quoted2b78cfee5]
wtf dude, don't make gay jokes around her. And you are soooo in the friend zone.[/quoted2b78cfee5]
oh yeah, most definitely, she played Dots on the 20x20 table. it's soo done
Killer722
11-09-2007 10:01:08
[quote2d3441acf7="TFOAF"]So I'm like OMG HE'S SO HOT, just to be funny and shit.[/quote2d3441acf7]
Wow FOAF, real smooth and hilarious. You should've been taken off your clothes whenever she won a hand!
tjwor
11-09-2007 10:54:03
foafy, you lose...
bayarea05
11-09-2007 13:54:23
lol lol
all i can say^^
@FOAFY, you seem have no chance for her. go for someone else
aviendha47
11-09-2007 14:30:12
[quotebb3a8bd7e7="tjwor"]foafy, you lose...[/quotebb3a8bd7e7]
Stop torturing yourself and move on
J4320
11-09-2007 14:32:33
Stop asking for advice from us and do what you feel is right.
ilanbg
11-09-2007 18:18:10
Seriously man, find some skank you don't care about and learn how to take advantage of her.
That way you'll learn when to put the moves on girls you care about. You basically had like a five hour window, but you pretty much blew it.
syriandoode
11-09-2007 20:40:30
[quote11afbe6f5d="J4320"]Umm that one can kick major ass too... I guess...[/quote11afbe6f5d]
we need to bring teh pwnage thread back
goooood times
J4320
11-09-2007 20:50:43
lol
Go ahead and post in it. I'll pwn you. ;)
doylnea
11-09-2007 22:56:17
TFOAF - there are 3 billion women in the world, and what 20,000 at your college - branch out, see who is else is out there, and make some guy friends. I met my GF after college, and had a shit-ton of fun while in college at the same time. Don't let yourself get dragged down by one girl at college, (2 is different matter ;) hey-yo (but seriously folks, I'll be here all week, tip your waiters)), especially first semester, freshman year. There's too much to experience that you're going to miss out on pining over some girl you met 2 weeks into college.
[quotee1b5fcbf93="TFOAF"]So I'm like OMG HE'S SO HOT, just to be funny and shit[/quotee1b5fcbf93]
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x323smostwantedx
12-09-2007 02:23:19
[quote10e60be55b="h3x"][quote10e60be55b="TFOAF"]So I'm like OMG HE'S SO HOT, [/quote10e60be55b]
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TFOAF
12-09-2007 04:28:23
[quoteec0590fd7a="doylnea"]TFOAF - there are 3 billion women in the world, and what 20,000 at your college - branch out, see who is else is out there, and make some guy friends. I met my GF after college, and had a shit-ton of fun while in college at the same time. Don't let yourself get dragged down by one girl at college, (2 is different matter ;) hey-yo (but seriously folks, I'll be here all week, tip your waiters)), especially first semester, freshman year. There's too much to experience that you're going to miss out on pining over some girl you met 2 weeks into college.[/quoteec0590fd7a]
Aw. Thanks. D
There's only 5,000+ students here at the campus. lisighli. It just always feel horrible though. I don't know why. I just hate the feeling. I feel as if I'll never find a "special someone." (
TryinToGetPaid
12-09-2007 05:35:37
Killer722
12-09-2007 08:10:00
Hey FOAFERRRS. Remember that guy Alex? I bet you felt the same way now as you did with Alex. And now that you found this girl, you don't give three shits for Alex, or not as much shits as you used to at least. So you see, you can find another girl and move on.
UniPrize Media
12-09-2007 12:58:07
[quote9d4611114d="TFOAF"]Okay. So, let's see I think it was like 8 PM. My friend and are chilling with Michelle. Then we go to go eat at like 9. Michelle stays in her room. So then we come back at around 10ish. My roomy goes back to his room, I go and watch a movie with Michelle. About an hour later her roomy comes running in, drunk. Then she leaves to get drunk more while the movie's still going on. I don't know, Michelle had like this green blanket thing she put over her. So I told her she looked like a mermaid and she didn't stop laughing. Then she like changed positions and I told her she now looked like a tadpole. Then the movie ended and like 5 people came into my room, my roomy was like WHERE'S THE ALCOHOL? So he got drunk too, and there's like 4 other ridiculously drunk people there. So Michelle had to do some homework, so I just sat with her during that period of time. Then now it's like 12 AM, right? So then Michelle starts playing like some retarded Male strip poker game (non-nude) on some magazine's website. So I'm like OMG HE'S SO HOT, just to be funny and shit. After that we played multiplayer games for a while. I don't know, I made her laugh a lot. Yahoo Pool, and then Yahoo Dots with a 20x20 table. So we started the table at like 130 AM, and we didn't finish until 3. Oh, Michelle and I were the only ones sober. Then we wen to bed. Whatever, this probably means nothing. Oh, and during the movie she took a picture of me and send it to me, lmao, and a video. Oh, and we were cracking up for a really long time over the drunk people in her room, lmao.[/quote9d4611114d]
Dude, where is the boyfriend when you are spending this much time with her?
Long term relationships suck in College. There are so many potentials to meet girls. I miss being single (
TFOAF
17-09-2007 11:25:47
Okay, now listen. Yesterday I hung out with her until like 330 again. We watched some horror movie, she kept hitting me with her sweatshirt, um...let's see...what else. We played UNO after the movie was over, I helped her study and she said if I wasn't there she wouldn't have studied. And...when her mom called, she was saying something and I was laughing, and her mom thought that was "Luke" (her bf) laughing, and she said no, no one's there, and she told her mom that she was studying alone. So like...she's hiding this from her boyfriend, her sister, and her mom. O_O
I'm so confused. Oh, and when we went to bed in our own rooms, she wanted me to text her until she fell asleep, and this morning she texted me a good morning text...and keeps on texting me, and we're watching another movie again later...All of this ... yesterday ... we were alone. )
And she did like some perverted thing like put my cell phone down her shirt, lol.
TryinToGetPaid
17-09-2007 11:28:25
And again you kept your hands to yourself and didn't make a move. Unless this guy is insansly huge you need to make a move my man.
manOFice
17-09-2007 11:42:26
If she's willing to cheat on her current b/f ... she will cheat on you if you ever did go for it. You don't want to be with a cheater...
Sounds like she's just a cock tease...
but yeah seriously... where is her b/f all the time? He doesn't call when you're around or something? Whats the b/f look like? Are you willing to take a black eye and a broken nose for this girl?
TFOAF
17-09-2007 11:58:43
He's visited her here before...multiple times, including yesterday, which then he left at 8 PM and I had her all to myself, lmao. But I never did meet him...and I don't plan on it. He does call from time to time. But she hides it...I don't know why. I'm really REALLY confused.
And she just randomly texted me now about how bored she is in class right now.
And like, when we're alone, we'll have these random 5-second stares at each other...and she gave me something her mom cooked, lmao.
manOFice
17-09-2007 12:14:09
[quote5680c08023="TFOAF"]He's visited her here before...multiple times, including yesterday, which then he left at 8 PM and I had her all to myself, lmao. But I never did meet him...and I don't plan on it. He does call from time to time. But she hides it...I don't know why. I'm really REALLY confused.
And she just randomly texted me now about how bored she is in class right now.
And like, when we're alone, we'll have these random 5-second stares at each other...and she gave me something her mom cooked, lmao.[/quote5680c08023]
It just sounds like your her only friend or something? Did she come to college knowing anyone?
ilanbg
17-09-2007 12:19:25
Argh, FOAF, we can't give you a step-by-step play. [i2305fb02f5]We can't help you.[/i2305fb02f5]
Take some risks; that is the advice we are all giving you. It is up to you to decide whether or not to use that advice. It is easier to run away from the things you want, but you may end up regretting it. That is the only thing to consider—and consider it wholeheartedly the next time you're with her.
TFOAF
17-09-2007 12:19:30
Yeah. I'm not her only friend, trust me.
TryinToGetPaid
17-09-2007 12:48:02
Like I said in the IM chat - make a move or move on. You are wasting your time, energy, and your thoughts. Either go for the touchdown for go find some new fish to bother.
tylerc
17-09-2007 13:48:16
Go for making out. If she rejects, move on.
J4320
17-09-2007 13:55:14
kiss her left boob
zdub08
17-09-2007 14:02:20
punch her ovaries
TFOAF
17-09-2007 14:29:37
Yet today her facebook says she's happy it's her and Luke's 11 months today.
manOFice
17-09-2007 14:30:59
lock this thread and foafy can pm a mod when he actually takes some action..
CollidgeGraduit
17-09-2007 14:44:28
Good idea.
