morning after pill blues...
nick_e
05-08-2007 12:50:51
Anyone know where I can get a freeking morning after pill on a sunday evening in charrlottesville,VA or anywere I can get to tonight. Personally I really don't want a pregnant girlfriend right now I love here and if it came down to it. But yeah I really want that pill I hate that freeking condom. Google's not helping or maybe I'm just to freeked out to use it. Help!
justinag06
05-08-2007 12:58:49
did you try your local pharmacy(CVS)? I believe they sell an over the counter pill now nationwide...
nick_e
05-08-2007 13:04:52
Praise the lord. If they actually passed that bill I will be so happy~ All the health clinics are closed today or closed at 1pm. Kinda bothering me. I'll try calling cvs that would be a beautiful thing if your right.
manOFice
05-08-2007 13:10:44
Planned parent hood
Powerbook
05-08-2007 14:03:22
[quote3d70e09547="manOFice"]Planned parent hood[/quote3d70e09547]
lolz
manOFice
05-08-2007 14:38:53
[quotef545a93b57="Powerbook"][quotef545a93b57="manOFice"]Planned parent hood[/quotef545a93b57]
lolz[/quotef545a93b57]
Whats so funny?
KeithA
05-08-2007 14:56:56
[quote8ad7a1ce38="manOFice"][quote8ad7a1ce38="Powerbook"][quote8ad7a1ce38="manOFice"]Planned parent hood[/quote8ad7a1ce38]
lolz[/quote8ad7a1ce38]
Whats so funny?[/quote8ad7a1ce38]
he'll explain when he gets back
puppeteer
05-08-2007 15:06:08
------EDIT
power just msged me on AIM, he asked how long is the temp ban?
junkie06
05-08-2007 15:45:56
well you have up to three days to get her that pill...do it 2maro
manOFice
05-08-2007 15:48:01
[quote0b200372ee="junkie06"]well you have up to three days to get her that pill...do it 2maro[/quote0b200372ee]
Yep, All that pill is ..is a huge dose of birth control
JUNIOR6886
05-08-2007 15:51:15
[quote84322bb00b="junkie06"]well you have up to three days to get her that pill...do it 2maro[/quote84322bb00b]
the chances of the M.A.P working goes down with each passing day
KeithA
05-08-2007 17:11:55
[quote9b7b6ceeb5="puppeteer"]------EDIT
power just msged me on AIM, he asked how long is the temp ban?[/quote9b7b6ceeb5]
3 days
theysayjump
05-08-2007 20:50:19
[quote6988b5c0ed="nick_e"]Anyone know where I can get a freeking morning after pill on a sunday evening in charrlottesville,VA or anywere I can get to tonight. Personally I really don't want a pregnant girlfriend right now I love here and if it came down to it. But yeah I really want that pill I hate that freeking condom. Google's not helping or maybe I'm just to freeked out to use it. Help![/quote6988b5c0ed]
Don't want a pregnant girlfriend?
Don't cum inside her!
If she gets pregnant it's your own fault. Man up.
Quintox
05-08-2007 21:20:19
[quoted495effabc="theysayjump"]
Don't want a pregnant girlfriend?
Don't cum inside her!
[/quoted495effabc]
Noob, you can still get her pregnant if you pull out
kidd2108
05-08-2007 21:28:21
[quote282a3c133c="nick_e"]Anyone know where I can get a freeking morning after pill on a sunday evening in charrlottesville,VA or anywere I can get to tonight. Personally I really don't want a pregnant girlfriend right now I love here and if it came down to it. But yeah I really want that pill I hate that freeking condom. Google's not helping or maybe I'm just to freeked out to use it. Help![/quote282a3c133c]
Your google skills might be lacking.
http//www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=161395&aid=336064&aparam=buy_plan_b
No prescription needed if over 18.
egyptianruin
05-08-2007 21:33:33
Also if you take plan B be nice to her, it will make he sick most likely.
egyptianruin
05-08-2007 21:35:44
[quote8f2d0e5e2a="Quintox"][quote8f2d0e5e2a="theysayjump"]
Don't want a pregnant girlfriend?
Don't cum inside her!
[/quote8f2d0e5e2a]
Noob, you can still get her pregnant if you pull out[/quote8f2d0e5e2a]
If people don't want to get pregnant then they shouldn't really be having sex or at least doing double duty on BC (condom and pill) Pull out method will still get a girl pregnant, I agree. Children having children (sigh)
theysayjump
05-08-2007 21:36:53
[quote0025cf84e5="Quintox"][quote0025cf84e5="theysayjump"]
Don't want a pregnant girlfriend?
Don't cum inside her!
[/quote0025cf84e5]
Noob, you can still get her pregnant if you pull out[/quote0025cf84e5]
And the award for Pedantic Douche goes to.......
DollarDealNetwork
05-08-2007 21:37:39
[quotec88efe8c9b="nick_e"]I really want that pill I hate that freeking condom.[/quotec88efe8c9b]
Your girlfriend enjoys massive stomach cramps, excessive bleeding, horrible headaches and the worst stomach cramps you can imagine? She must be a great girl to go through all that so you don't have to be uncomfortable for 30 seconds roll
theysayjump
05-08-2007 21:38:23
[quote2283c9f902="2DollarDeal"][quote2283c9f902="nick_e"]I really want that pill I hate that freeking condom.[/quote2283c9f902]
Your girlfriend enjoys massive stomach cramps, excessive bleeding, horrible headaches and the worst stomach cramps you can imagine? She must be a great girl to go through all that so you don't have to be uncomfortable for 30 seconds roll[/quote2283c9f902]
30 seconds?
I think you're giving him too much credit.
junkie06
05-08-2007 21:42:54
Dont think this pill is the easy way out. She is going to hate you, after what she is going to go through for the next month or two, cuz this will f-up her cycle.
michae229
05-08-2007 23:30:17
[quotef00ac6c3d3="theysayjump"][quotef00ac6c3d3="nick_e"]Anyone know where I can get a freeking morning after pill on a sunday evening in charrlottesville,VA or anywere I can get to tonight. Personally I really don't want a pregnant girlfriend right now I love here and if it came down to it. But yeah I really want that pill I hate that freeking condom. Google's not helping or maybe I'm just to freeked out to use it. Help![/quotef00ac6c3d3]
Don't want a pregnant girlfriend?
Don't cum inside her!
If she gets pregnant it's your own fault. Man up.[/quotef00ac6c3d3]
sometimes it just happens even with protection trust me "I know from experience"
http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hVD58xKCk8&eurl=http%3A%2F%2Fefcdcccd%2Efacebook%2Ecom%2Fposted%2Ephp%3Fid%3D196000727
lol
JOSHBOX
06-08-2007 00:41:55
[quoteff0abf5c27="junkie06"]Dont think this pill is the easy way out. She is going to hate you, after what she is going to go through for the next month or two, cuz this will f-up her cycle.[/quoteff0abf5c27]
having unexpected children is better?
Good luck to you nick_e, you should be able to find the pill over the counter at many local pharmacies. Its kind of expensive but do it this one time, and remember to be more cautious in the future. Let us know how this goes.
PS Dont use the morning after pill as an alternative to condoms!
aviendha47
06-08-2007 01:23:17
If you check out a planned parenthood sometimes it's free.
sandra habina
06-08-2007 02:44:22
Crazy thought here - but why doesn't your girlfriend get on the birth control pill? Safer than a condum but not fool proof either. You do have to remember to take it.
You BOTH need to be responsible. Good luck to you both.
tylerc
06-08-2007 06:12:21
[quotec4bc790b3f="aviendha47"]If you check out a planned parenthood sometimes it's free.[/quotec4bc790b3f]
My sister's friend got it and it was like $45-50 at one here in town.
skepticalcynic
06-08-2007 06:32:15
MAP is an abortion pill. It has the same effect on a woman's body as a medical abortion. Serious stuff. Condom is safer, easier, and better for both of you and your relationship. Nuva Ring is great for general birth control - better than the pill.
TryinToGetPaid
06-08-2007 07:46:30
My girlfriend (after one botched birth control) just got a 250 dollar birth control that lasts THREE years, and is implanted in her arm. Hopefully this one will work.....
manOFice
06-08-2007 08:12:32
[quote35c9628df4="TryinToGetPaid"]My girlfriend (after one botched birth control) just got a 250 dollar birth control that lasts THREE years, and is implanted in her arm. Hopefully this one will work.....[/quote35c9628df4]
My sister was on the pill but still got pregnant...birth control is wack these days.
That arm birth control I've heard of but don't know anyone so keep us updated on how it works.
Lets not let this topic get away and have an "abortion" topic.
All the morning after pill is ..is a huge dose of birth control.
Planned parenthood will hook you up, i don't believe it's free but it's pretty cheap pill ...
But it will mess the womens cycle up.
skepticalcynic
06-08-2007 08:37:25
Norplant, which is the small tubes implanted into the woman's arm, works well but the biggest side effect is weight gain.
I wasn't trying to make this into an abortion topic. But "birth control" methods such as the morning after pill and Depoprovera, for example, work by souring the uterine wall so fertilized eggs cannot survive. A woman should know these things before making a decision. That's all I wanted to point out.
Also - any long-term birth control method must be discontinued 18 to 24 months before pregnancy or there is a very high risk of serious birth defects. This is also something to consider for those who do eventually want children.
My recommendation is still for Nuva Ring - it is effective only when it is inserted, stays comfortably in place for 3 weeks, has almost no side effects, and is proven 99% effective when used correctly. And you can get a prescription for it from any health department or Planned Parenthood and without insurance the cost is $48 per month.
Good Luck nick in whatever you and your girlfriend decide )
TryinToGetPaid
06-08-2007 08:41:52
It is not small tubes - it is one solid thing, looks like a elongated pill. It is a new medicine on the market.
And she has no weight gain, she actually has lost 20 pounds, but that is from diet and exercise to lost her baby fat.
manOFice
06-08-2007 09:09:52
Birth control in general causes weight gain.
skepticalcynic- good post and info )
Admin
06-08-2007 09:11:00
[quoteaf9916f56f="nick_e"]Anyone know where I can get a freeking morning after pill on a sunday evening in charrlottesville,VA or anywere I can get to tonight. Personally I really don't want a pregnant girlfriend right now I love here and if it came down to it. But yeah I really want that pill I hate that freeking condom. Google's not helping or maybe I'm just to freeked out to use it. Help![/quoteaf9916f56f]although everyone's trying to get you to freak out (with pretty good reason), I thought I'd mention that everyone's body is different and there is no way to predict how she'll react. for a lot of women, there are little or no side effects at all.
also calling the MAP tantamount to abortion is pretty intense, i mean you don't even know if you're actually pregnant when you take the MAP. even in ideal conditions for conception the odds are not fantastic. the numbers say that nick_e's friend is probably not pregnant. i think pregnancy is a threshold issue when discussing abortion.
[quoteaf9916f56f="skepticalcynic"]My recommendation is still for Nuva Ring - it is effective only when it is inserted, stays comfortably in place for 3 weeks, has almost no side effects, and is proven 99% effective when used correctly. And you can get a prescription for it from any health department or Planned Parenthood and without insurance the cost is $48 per month.[/quoteaf9916f56f]thanks for the info! those are pretty neat. i'm glad to see that there is finally some innovation in that field )
JOSHBOX
06-08-2007 09:34:54
Agreeing with admin here, calling the MAP an abortion pill is a pretty big stretch. The MAP prevents the egg from attaching to the uterus, the same thing other birth controls do. Conception is not when the sperm joins the egg, its when the fertilized egg attaches to the wall of the uterus. Sometimes this does not happen even without BC.
skepticalcynic
06-08-2007 11:31:53
I didn't mean to cause problems - I just was trying to be helpful. I'm sorry if I ended up being controversial.
Admin is right - everyone's body is different. But I think it helps to have all available info.
JOSHBOX, I think you're getting into semantics - everyone has different definitions of a lot of things, including that - but I appreciate you adding your viewpoint as it adds clarity to my post.
And thank you manOFice and Admin for appreciating my input )
junkie06
06-08-2007 13:51:10
Of course everyone's body is different, however, the likelihood that she wont feel any pain, is wrong. Her body will go through extreme pain, and thats a fact...the amount of pain depends on how her body takes it. I know a couple of girls who have take the morning after pill.
aviendha47
06-08-2007 14:29:18
[quote834e7d3197="junkie06"]Of course everyone's body is different, however, the likelihood that she wont feel any pain, is wrong. Her body will go through extreme pain, and thats a fact...[b834e7d3197]the amount of pain depends on how her body takes it.[/b834e7d3197] I know a couple of girls who have take the morning after pill.[/quote834e7d3197]
It is possible to have no side effects, every body is different.
zr2152
06-08-2007 16:18:01
A condom is 75% effective and the MAP is 91%.
So in essence, the pill is the way to go but it could screw up your girls body and her period a little. Also, its like 45 a pop here, not really worth it.
It's like paying to have sex.
egyptianruin
06-08-2007 19:04:05
Tried the patch - allergic to the adhesive, Pill made me gain crazy weight, I don't think I could do IUD. I was thinking about Nuva Ring but that kinda freaks me out a bit, lol. But like everyone else said every form of BC (even ECP) can affect a person differently. This can be said with all medications, especially those that alter your hormones.
tjwor
06-08-2007 19:17:03
[quote7ac9e273d3="zr2152"]A condom is 75% effective and the MAP is 91%.
So in essence, the pill is the way to go but it could screw up your girls body and her period a little. Also, its like 45 a pop here, not really worth it.
It's like paying to have sex.[/quote7ac9e273d3]
75%??? i'd say a condom is much more affective, you don't get a girl prego 1/4 times of having sex with a condom... but it is a bigger risk than the pill, but not 75%...
CollidgeGraduit
06-08-2007 19:22:15
[quotec45ddd7179="tjwor"][quotec45ddd7179="zr2152"]A condom is 75% effective and the MAP is 91%.
So in essence, the pill is the way to go but it could screw up your girls body and her period a little. Also, its like 45 a pop here, not really worth it.
It's like paying to have sex.[/quotec45ddd7179]
75%??? i'd say a condom is much more affective, you don't get a girl prego 1/4 times of having sex with a condom... but it is a bigger risk than the pill, but not 75%...[/quotec45ddd7179]
Most definitely... I'd say it's over 99%. I haven't managed to knock my wife up while using a condom. She's been off the pill for over a year now because we want to have kids in the next couple of years.
zdub08
06-08-2007 19:45:27
some of the studies are "over the course of a year" or something. I think it's just so they can scare you.
Admin
06-08-2007 21:44:47
condoms are better than 90% effective "when used properly" -- i'm assuming that 75% statistic is for all condom use.
god forbid we teach proper condom use
Sstaceyrae21
06-08-2007 22:29:11
I thought I would jump in a remind all that of course the pill with condom combo is the most effective, but the condom alone will give both protection from the "clap", most all the other nasty luggage that sexual partners carry with them. If you really want no pregnancies ever...
get you man fixed! That is what I did, but we were done haveing kids of course.
JennyWren
06-08-2007 22:40:24
[quoteefe7fd2a3d="tjwor"][quoteefe7fd2a3d="zr2152"]A condom is 75% effective and the MAP is 91%.
So in essence, the pill is the way to go but it could screw up your girls body and her period a little. Also, its like 45 a pop here, not really worth it.
It's like paying to have sex.[/quoteefe7fd2a3d]
75%??? i'd say a condom is much more affective, you don't get a girl prego 1/4 times of having sex with a condom... but it is a bigger risk than the pill, but not 75%...[/quoteefe7fd2a3d]
Yeah, but it's not like you get the girl "prego" (!?!) 100% of the time without a condom, so your math is a bit flawed.
Remember that the percentages given take into account the fact that people use things incorrectly. The pill is VERY good if taken correctly, but if you skip pills or take them at different times each day, the effectiveness drops. Similarly with condoms, putting them on wrong or not putting them on at the beginning can lower the effectiveness.
I say if you are with someone that you know you are going to be with for a while, pills are the way to go. Pill + condom is probably the best thing, however. No matter what method of birth control you decide to use, make sure that both you and your partner are willing to deal with the consequences if the BC fails. It's important that you are on the same page about what you would do, because nothing, I mean NOTHING, is 100% effective.
doylnea
06-08-2007 22:49:30
[quote1bb8fdf108="Sstaceyrae21"]I thought I would jump in a remind all that of course the pill with condom combo is the most effective, but the condom alone will give both protection from the "clap", most all the other nasty luggage that sexual partners carry with them. If you really want no pregnancies ever...
get you man fixed! That is what I did, but we were done haveing kids of course.[/quote1bb8fdf108]
no sex at all, would be the most effective, actually. oops
junkie06
06-08-2007 23:54:02
[quote38a3a0b6f6="aviendha47"][quote38a3a0b6f6="junkie06"]Of course everyone's body is different, however, the likelihood that she wont feel any pain, is wrong. Her body will go through extreme pain, and thats a fact...[b38a3a0b6f6]the amount of pain depends on how her body takes it.[/b38a3a0b6f6] I know a couple of girls who have take the morning after pill.[/quote38a3a0b6f6]
It is possible to have no side effects, every body is different.[/quote38a3a0b6f6]
nope
aviendha47
06-08-2007 23:55:39
[quotee81b05e43b="junkie06"][quotee81b05e43b="aviendha47"][quotee81b05e43b="junkie06"]Of course everyone's body is different, however, the likelihood that she wont feel any pain, is wrong. Her body will go through extreme pain, and thats a fact...[be81b05e43b]the amount of pain depends on how her body takes it.[/be81b05e43b] I know a couple of girls who have take the morning after pill.[/quotee81b05e43b]
It is possible to have no side effects, every body is different.[/quotee81b05e43b]
nope[/quotee81b05e43b]
yup
JayKanish
07-08-2007 11:41:29
My fiancee got an IUD because she was told if she used any hormonal birth control she could end up dying. So far it's been really effective (fingers crossed) with only side effect being a slightly heavier menstrual cycle.
Powerbook
08-08-2007 15:31:27
[quote357a07c9b2="KeithA"][quote357a07c9b2="manOFice"][quote357a07c9b2="Powerbook"][quote357a07c9b2="manOFice"]Planned parent hood[/quote357a07c9b2]
lolz[/quote357a07c9b2]
Whats so funny?[/quote357a07c9b2]
he'll explain when he gets back[/quote357a07c9b2]
Keith, you got me good. Well played. lol As for what I said before, sorry if it offended anyone. I thought Manofice was trying to be funny heh. My apologies.
manOFice
09-08-2007 06:44:15
So uhh nick...what did you end up doing?
nick_e
15-08-2007 11:19:05
... This turned into a big topic. Yeah so anyway thanks a lot CVS does sell them over the counter if your over 18.
Just to clear a few things up I was looking for the pill on her request I wasn't like take this and eat it now! Also we used a condom. This should be a lesson to you condoms will not nessisarilly protect you it broke and it's not much use if that happens. Yes like watever his name said it doesn't matter if you cum in her or not she can still get pregnant if she isn't protected.
Basically the pill sent her cycle out of wack and made her really hormonal for about a week then she was back to normal and thankfully not pregnant.
We're both alive and things are good (just not lifesyle condoms)
Peace
Jams44
15-08-2007 11:35:28
[quoteaca3903b06="doylnea"][quoteaca3903b06="Sstaceyrae21"]I thought I would jump in a remind all that of course the pill with condom combo is the most effective, but the condom alone will give both protection from the "clap", most all the other nasty luggage that sexual partners carry with them. If you really want no pregnancies ever...
get you man fixed! That is what I did, but we were done haveing kids of course.[/quoteaca3903b06]
no sex at all, would be the most effective, actually. oops[/quoteaca3903b06]
Anal.
manOFice
15-08-2007 12:08:46
[quote05e829c687="nick_e"]... This turned into a big topic. Yeah so anyway thanks a lot CVS does sell them over the counter if your over 18.
Just to clear a few things up I was looking for the pill on her request I wasn't like take this and eat it now! Also we used a condom. This should be a lesson to you condoms will not nessisarilly protect you it broke and it's not much use if that happens. Yes like watever his name said it doesn't matter if you cum in her or not she can still get pregnant if she isn't protected.
Basically the pill sent her cycle out of wack and made her really hormonal for about a week then she was back to normal and thankfully not pregnant.
We're both alive and things are good (just not lifesyle condoms)
Peace[/quote05e829c687]
I only use Lifestyles..hrmm
and I didn't know CVS carries that shit...good to know.
nick_e
18-08-2007 17:27:14
yeah no lifesyles I was useing a normal extra lubricaded and that happend just use a freeking normal trojan they have the lowest chance of breaking and you don't ever want to have a break ever. Extra pleasure is totally lost when you feel a condom break and you better hope you feel it break.
Treat her like she's a really hot goddess the key word is goddess you have to worship her, fear her wrath and obey her wishes praise her every aspect and be ready to flee her presents when she gets out the lightning (but only when she wants you to otherwise just take the hits). don't make romantic advances, no physical contact at all unless she makes the move. If she's fealing chearful keep her that way cause when she gets down.. not fun anyway dont try to cheer her up it won't work it will just piss her off let her talk and talk and talk and eventually it will all be a memory and like any tramatic experience if you are there with her through it and don't bring her down it will strengthen your relationship in the end.
But yeah that was hard for sure.
J4320
18-08-2007 17:59:11
[quotebc7f695822="nick_e"]yeah no lifesyles I was useing a normal extra lubricaded and that happend just use a freeking normal trojan they have the lowest chance of breaking and you don't ever want to have a break ever. Extra pleasure is totally lost when you feel a condom break and you better hope you feel it break.
[bbc7f695822]Treat her like she's a really hot goddess the key word is goddess you have to worship her, fear her wrath and obey her wishes praise her every aspect and be ready to flee her presents when she gets out the lightning (but only when she wants you to otherwise just take the hits). don't make romantic advances, no physical contact at all unless she makes the move. If she's fealing chearful keep her that way cause when she gets down.. not fun anyway dont try to cheer her up it won't work it will just piss her off let her talk and talk and talk and eventually it will all be a memory and like any tramatic experience if you are there with her through it and don't bring her down it will strengthen your relationship in the end.
[/bbc7f695822]
But yeah that was hard for sure.[/quotebc7f695822]
ummm wut?
nick_e
20-08-2007 12:44:45
I hope you never understand that.
manOFice
20-08-2007 12:49:45
Use a trojan if you don't wanna feel your dick.
And I'm kinda with J4320 on this one when I say "Wut?"
Fugger
21-08-2007 06:53:51
I don't care what we have to use to prevent pregnancy. I'll use every birth control method out there if it means better odds of preventing the largest std that exists Life.
manOFice
21-08-2007 07:35:53
[quote884c909977="Fugger"]I don't care what we have to use to prevent pregnancy. I'll use every birth control method out there if it means better odds of preventing the largest std that exists Life.[/quote884c909977]]
Fugger FTW!