Is this okay??? I've never had to deal with this before...

Okay, so I'm in this trade with dvdakamine, and it's been a week since he claimed he did the offers, but still no green. I asked him a few days ago what offers he did, but he didn't reply to that PM.

So I ask him yesterday what the status of the trades were

[quote1cee3db1e7="Insanekitten"]
Hey man,

It's been a week since you claimed to have done offers for me, yet neither sites have greened yet. Could you please forward to me a copy of the confirmation e-mails you got, otherwise, if you didn't get e-mails, you will have to contact the company of the offer you signed up for and ask them about sending you an e-mail.

If you did get e-mails, could you also please submit for a support ticket and give Trainn that information so that they can process a manual order?

You can forward the e-mails here (imagine my e-mail here)
[/quote1cee3db1e7]

Note I meant credit rather than order in my message.

The next day he freaks out responding with

[quote1cee3db1e7="dvdakamine"]First off its not a claim I did the 2 offers and it has not been seven days
but anyway I don't like your attitude.[/quote1cee3db1e7]

And then he proceeds to request deletion of the current trades. I'm a bit upset by this, and to me this does not seem like an OK thing to do on his part, just to simply decide he doesn't like my 'attitude' and just drop the trade at his own whim after confirming things, but I just wanted to make sure here.

And yes it was about a week, he last updated the TM with the "offer completed" statuses on May 19th. But even then, he didn't tell me which offers he did, and nor did he send me the confirmation e-mails so I had no idea what was going on, on his side. I didn't mean to offend him, I just wanted to know what was going on.

1. You should PM a mod.
2. Did you already pay him, or do one of his sites? If not, then as bad and crappy as it may seem, there is no harm in letting the trade go. If you did pay him or do one of his sites, that's where the problem would be.
3. If you want to check and see that he did do offers, you could submit a support ticket on the site in question and ask about his account, and see if he did do any offers.

I hope you can get this all worked out.

1. Yeah I think I will look into that...
2. No, fortunately for me, he agreed to being paid on green. So I have not paid yet. But yes you do have a point that it's not AS bad to let the offer go, though it was definately a waste of time for me and that's not particularily a good thing in my books...
3. I'm going to go do that right now.

You might also politely point out to him that if he really did do the offers, it makes sense for him to request manual credit (and TR) so that he can pursue that site if he decides to and get TR credit here.

dvdkamine

green for green with me just fine

always always ALWAYS pm a mod before posting here. You can seriously screw up someone's reputation for a misunderstanding


anyhoo - I hope it works out

Try changing your attitude when you deal with people
I would have glady done 2 more offers for you if you
had not approched me in the manner you did. I don't
owe you anything but respect. I demand the same.
I may have loss track of time and went beyond 7 days
but some people dont contact traders for weeks. So don't
trying to cause problems for me by posting here.

[quotec932de7adc="dvdakamine"]Try changing your attitude when you deal with people
I would have glady done 2 more offers for you if you
had not approched me in the manner you did. I don't
owe you anything but respect. I demand the same.
I may have loss track of time and went beyond 7 days
but some people dont contact traders for weeks. So don't
trying to cause problems for me by posting here.[/quotec932de7adc]

I don't think I was out of line with my attitude when I tried to contact you regarding our trade. I'm confused as to what part of my message seemed rude to you... I did not swear at you, nor did I say you didn't do your offers. I merely stated the facts, and offered some solutions. If you lost track of time, fine! I completely understand that. I just wanted to know what was going on considering you hadn't told me much.

Believe me, I know what it's like to be patient with other traders. I'm currently in this other trade with another trader who has taken since February, and he STILL is trying to go green for me.

Keep in mind TRAINN sites can be horribly slow to credit

[quote1ca197ca1f="tinkerjenn"]Keep in mind TRAINN sites can be horribly slow to credit[/quote1ca197ca1f]

Yup, I know. Most of the time they don't actually credit. If you don't get the credit in the amount of time thats stated for the offer, you will most likely NOT get the credit. In which case you'd have to submit for a manual credit.

yup, but then its almost guaranteed you get it after 2 weeks. all other manuals take up to 3 MONTHS.... roll