lmh12 hasn't responded to me... please advise what to do

Hi,

I opened up a trade with lmh12 with TR0 recently, and he has signed up and claimed to complete an offer and is waiting for green. All this happened 5 days ago. Of course since he's new, I said I'd pay after he goes green, and he still hasn't. I sent him an email for an update, what's going on, etc, and he hasn't responded since.

I'm tired of waiting, and I want my last referral done already. When will it be safe to just find someone else to do it? I'm afraid if I do that though, and he contacts me saying he's gone green, he'll ask for a payment. When will it be safe for me to find another referral?

Please advise.

Thanks.

Hey there,

You should wait a few more days to see what's up, then PM him again. If he doesn't respond, I believe you can back out of the trade after contacting a moderator.

I also set up a trade with lmh12 on 1/25 and haven't heard anything since! Just wanted to let you know you are not alone!

Thanks. I have waited long enough for this. I sent him a PM 2 days ago saying he has two days more to respond, or else the deal is off. It has been 2 days. Can I please get permission from an admin to let him know the deal is off? I want to finish getting my referrals already.

Thanks.

The forum rules state that after 14 days of no communication you can cancel. There are a few steps you have to take or you can get in trouble. First you must send a PM the first seven days then send one the second seven days and if no response then after the 14 days you can send a pm stating that they are out of communication and your intent to cancel. Also in the trade module you can state that the other party is out of communication. i would save any pm's or emails though in case the other party comes back later and wants money.

Hi,

it has now been 14 days, and still haven't heard of him. Who should I PM, or can I just get permission from an admin here to just ignore this guy now?

Thanks.

yea, i made a trade with this guy a while back too. hasnt replied to any of my private messages, hasnt completed any offers for the site... i just gave up on him. even if he greens now, its too late. id just move on, find another ref and get on with approval. thats what i did. why stress over it. its his fault for not greening, and it should never take longer than 14 days.